“Willing to” vs “Wanting to”

“Willing to” vs “Wanting to” are two different positions which are useful to reflect and get clarity about with regard to creating consensual agreement.

Willing to...

  • It’s your preference (not mine)
  • I’m available for…
  • I have access to my generosity
  • I need to take care of my limits

Wanting to…

  • It’s my preference (not yours)
  • I’m asking for…
  • I have access to my needs and desires
  • I must respect your limits

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